Christmas gifts 2011

Well, we made it to the other side of Christmas! Congratulations! I hope that you had the merriest of Christmases and are enjoying the last days of 2010! I have been busy celebrating with my family and friends and doing some part-time work, so please forgive my lack of posting this past week. Check back next week for several great new posts to celebrate the start of 2011!

In the meantime, check out what Santa brought me this year (most of these items were mentioned in my previous post here):

• Rosetta Stone French Levels 1-5: Hopefully I will be babbling on in French in no time!
• Pink Glitter Toms: These were apparently very popular this year, so they are on backorder. Hopefully they will arrive sometime in late February. I'm just excited to know that they are coming!
• LL Bean duck shoes: Also on backorder, and due around the first of February. I guess good things come to those who wait!
• DVDs: Lost Season 6, The Office Season 6, Pearl Harbor, Stepbrothers, Eat Pray Love, and The Office digital shorts collection
• Books: The Book of Awesome, The Happiness Project, Paris to the Moon, An Incomplete Education, Style (by Lauren Conrad), and Telling Lies
• Clothes
• The New Yorker 2011 Desk Diary in red
• Jeopardy daily desk calendar
• A Walk in Paris wall calendar
• iTunes gift card

What did you get for Christmas this year?

Green goodies

My friend and fellow blogger Green Gourmet K has posted a list of her favorite green products on her blog The Green Gourmets. She has some great earth-friendly suggestions that are sure to please anyone on your list. Also check out the rest of her site, where she writes about green food choices, restaurants, and recipes. The food sounds delicious and would make a yummy and healthy choice for your holiday gatherings!

For the unexpected holiday recipient

One of my favorite things about the holiday season is visiting with family and friends, many of whom I rarely get to see otherwise. Having unscheduled visitors or attending a last-minute rendezvous can be a wonderful treat, but it can also create an uncomfortable situation because these events often involve gifts. If a guest brings you a gift but you didn't have her on your list, or you need a gift for an impromptu party or meal, you could end up embarrassed if you don't have a present to offer.

To make sure you never face this problem, keep some all-purpose gifts on hand, wrapped and with a generic gift tag (e.g. "Happy holidays from the Smith family") with room to fill in the recipient's name at the last minute. Make sure your gift will work for both genders and a variety of ages. A Gift Guru tip: if you choose a gift that you like, you can enjoy any left-over presents when your gifting is done!

Here are some suggestions for all-purpose gifts to keep in stock this holiday season:

• Baked Goods: These are always a treat to receive and add a personal touch to the gift-giving process. You could make the food yourself or buy it from a bakery. Breads and desserts are a good choice that most people enjoy and are easy to package and keep on hand.
• Popcorn: The Christmas popcorn tin may be the classic all-purpose gift, and with good reason. The popcorn is yummy and the tin makes a great storage bin after the last kernel disappears. You could also pop your own and season it with your favorite toppings, such as butter, cinnamon sugar, or caramel, and put it in a bag tied with festive ribbon.
• Drinks: Your favorite bottle of wine or spirits makes an excellent gift and allows you to (honestly) tell your recipient that you love this gift and thought he would too. Other beverage gifts include spiced cider, Russian tea, or another specialty you enjoy. You may also want to consider a nice hot chocolate set or a bag of premium coffee or tea. But be careful: if you choose alcohol as a gift, make sure you don't have any possible recipients who are teetotalers (or keep an alternative gift on hand for them).
• Gift Cards: These are a wise choice if you need gifts for a diverse group of people. Either choose several vendors or stick with one, but make sure that your recipient can purchase something there with the amount you give them. You can't go wrong with cards for movie theaters, restaurants, or Charity Choice (which lets your recipients choose a cause to support with your gift). I recommend avoiding overly practical gift cards like gas and grocery cards, as these seem impersonal and may indicate a lack of effort on your part.
• Blankets: When the temperature drops and the power bills skyrocket, it seems like you can't have enough blankets. Everyone loves a comfy blanket, especially a fleece version. Wrap it up with a seasonal ribbon and you have a guaranteed hit.
• Books: Choose a favorite book that has universal appeal, such as a classic novel or a funny memoir. You could also buy several different books to match different personalities - just make sure to label them somehow after you wrap them so you don't get them mixed up!
• Candles: Most people spend a good deal of time indoors during the winter, and they appreciate when their home smells nice. Just make sure to choose a quality candle, like a Yankee Candle, or a pretty one suitable for display. A word of warning: pick a neutral or popular scent, such as clean linen or vanilla, rather than something your recipients might find unappealing or too strong.
• Ornaments: You can't have too many ornaments, and with all the choices available, chances are low that you will pick one your recipients already have. Add a personal touch with a message like "Happy Holidays from the Jones family" or "Merry Christmas from Matt and Sarah" and you have a gift that will serve as an annual reminder of your friendship. Ornaments also make great repeat gifts - just choose a new design each year and simplify your universal gift-giving. 

Although there are plenty of great gifts that will help you out in a pinch, there are also several you should avoid:

• Personalized Items: Don't choose a gift that you will need to personalize at the last minute or that you mark with something generic (like "Merry Christmas to our friends" without including their names).
• Anything Offensive or Partisan: Remember that you should avoid offensive items in all gift-giving, and all-purpose gifts are no exception. Keep the political books and fart machines out of your gift lineup.
• Sports Items: Even if you live and die by your school's success on the football field, your recipients may not feel the same way. Never give gifts that are more about you than your recipients, and this goes doubly for personal choices like sports teams.
• Fragrances and Lotions: Because these recipients weren't on your original gift list, you probably are not close enough to them for such a personal gift. Stick to something less intimate - many people have allergies or very specific preferences regarding these items.

What are your favorite gifts to keep on hand during the holidays?

Discovery Channel and Samsonite sales

For today only, Discovery Channel is offering 43% off their Shark Week DVD Collection. This would make a great gift for a male you are having trouble buying for! They are also having some great discounts on lots of their unique products, including a 25 for $25 sale on items that would make great stocking stuffers or kids' gifts (ends Thursday 12/16). Stop by and check it out!

Samsonite is offering $30 off every $150 you spend through Monday, December 20. If you have a frequent traveler on your list, chances are they could use some new luggage!

More limited time deals

If you have a sports fan or athlete on your list this year, check out these links from Finish Line:

• Free shipping on orders of $25+ (expires 12/15/10)
• Get 2 NCAA fleeces for $40

To spoil your four-legged friend, visit Three Dog Bakery for free shipping on orders of $25+ (use code afho4)

One Day Deals

These offers expire at midnight on December 14, so take advantage of them today!

• Get 16% off one item at Barnes & Noble with promo code BNGANQ4
• Abe Books is offering $5 off $50+ with the promo code ONEDAY
• Take 10% off orders of $100+ from Overton's

For the record

Normally my posts are aimed at finding the perfect gift for a certain type of person, but there are a few items out there that I just have to mention before Christmas and I will run out of time to do so without this post. So, for the record, these are some of my favorite gifts this year (if anyone needs gift ideas for me, feel free to use this as a guide!):

I have been wanting to learn more French for awhile, and I think Rosetta Stone is the best choice to help me do just that (unless someone wants to send me to France, of course!). My father thinks I want to learn French so I can move to Paris... not a bad idea, pops!

I know these pink glitter Toms (available in more sizes at Nordstrom) are a bit self-indulgent, but I love them and don't care who knows it.

Apple's iPad (shown here in 64 GB Wi-Fi + 3G model) is one of the hottest gadgets on the market this year; unfortunately, my MacBook uses an older operating system than the iPad requires for syncing, so this indulgence will have to wait...

...unless someone also wants to get me a new MacBook Pro! Mine has been through 3 years of law school (a miracle in itself) plus another year of miscellaneous use, which is quite impressive. It deserves a break.

The iPhone 4 has great new features like video and a 5 megapixel camera and is one of the best selling phones on the market. I have wanted an iPhone since I first heard rumors of its existence. Now that it seems a Verizon model is looming, maybe the time has come for me to take the plunge!

Sadly, my favorite show is over, but Lost will live on in the hearts and time-traveling minds of fans everywhere.

I recently discovered the show Lie to Me, about deception experts, and I am a bit obsessed. Telling Lies is the real-life inspiration for the series, and I can't wait to start reading it.

The Louis Vuitton Speedy is a classic - I prefer to think of it as an investment rather than a bag. Available from Louis Vuitton and LV boutiques in 4 sizes (25, 30, 35, 40), shown here in 35.

These rubber mocs from LL Bean are perfect for rainy days (or just because). I love the khaki/navy version, but there are also more colors to choose from.

The Trackstick Mini is a tiny, USB-like device that tracks your journeys and allows for geotagging photos, retracing your route, and marking favorite spots for easy return. Just turn it on and go on your merry way. When you get home, plug it into your computer and upload your travels. Perfect for travelers and outdoorsmen. There is also an iPhone app called Walkabout that does the same thing.

This sterling silver fingerprint signet ring is a unique gift that would be perfect for moms or even as an engagement or wedding ring. Submit your desired fingerprint and the artists will transform it into a one-of-a-kind piece of jewelry. Also available in gold and platinum.

I don't usually get excited about furniture, but this map chair caught my attention. These made-to-order chairs feature the location of your choice in decoupage, ready for duty in your home or office.

Every worker needs a nameplate - and what better way to introduce yourself than a whimsical version you won't find elsewhere! The Scrabble letters nameplate is a great choice for a new hire or for a home office.

• Pink peacoat: I don't have a certain version in mind, but you can't go wrong with Gap!
• Nap blanket (or nap snuggie): this is seriously the most comfortable blanket you will ever feel. And right now, Brookstone has them buy 1, get 1 half off!
• Decision Points by former President George W. Bush: love him or hate him, this is a rare chance to see inside the mind of one of the world's most powerful people. In case anyone is concerned about partisanship, I also own Bill Clinton's My Life.
• Ireland: you can buy a square foot of Irish countryside for only $49.99. It comes with pictures and directions in case you want to visit your domain. I think I would like to be called "Queen Gift Guru" among my woodland subjects.
• T-shirt blanket: take old t-shirts and make them into a comfy blanket than you can use or display. This makes a great graduation gift. Available from multiple sellers around the web (Google "tshirt blanket") or make your own!
• The Book of Awesome: this book, from the author of 1000 Awesome Things blog, is a blend of childhood memories, witty observations, and general feel-good sentiments that would suit almost any recipient. 

What's on your list this year?

Toms discount

TOMS Shoes is offering $5 off all shoes when you use the code "AFFTM5" by December 31. Click here to get your coupon!

For the host(ess)

The Christmas season brings unique challenges for gift-givers, like buying for the teenager who is never satisfied and making conversation with the odd and distant relative who insists on coming to dinner this year. There is also the recurring issue of host(ess)* gifts, which are certainly not limited to the holiday season but seem to arise more frequently during this time.

*I will use the female form in this post, for simplicity's sake, but I readily acknowledge that men can and do make great hosts who deserve an equally special gift. If you are giving to a couple, choose a less feminine gift that both hosts will enjoy.

Hostess gifts show your appreciation for being invited to the event (and ensure that you will be at the top of the guest list next year). Although they are not required for every event you attend, a gift is always a nice way to say thank you. A good rule of thumb is to use the event's length and degree of formality to guide you in what to bring. Gifts are required for overnight visits and formal dinner parties and optional for cocktail parties and casual meals.

Remember, gift giving is not about you, and this applies doubly to hostess gifts. Feel free to bring a gift of food or drink, but don't expect that it will be served at the event. If your hostess chooses to do so, that is perfectly fine, but realize that the menu was set before your gift arrived and may not accommodate your nonetheless appreciated present. Your gift is first and foremost for the hostess, and once it is received she is free to do with it as she likes.

Here are some ideas to help you find the perfect gift for your hostess, regardless of the event you are attending:

• Food: desserts are always a hit, but breads or your specialty dish will also do the trick. Try to make the dish something that is easy to transport and fuss-free.
• Drink: wine, spirits, or a non-alcoholic beverage (like sweet tea or lemonade) is a nice treat for the hostess to enjoy later, or serve at the event if she chooses
• Restaurant gift certificate: say "thank you" for your hostess's hospitality by giving her a meal that she doesn't have to prepare
• Flowers: have them delivered if possible; if not, be sure to bring them in a vase so your hostess doesn't have to find a container while welcoming guests
• Ornament: an appropriate choice for holiday parties
• Token from home: if you are gifting to a person in a different geographic locale, think about bringing an item that represents your home area, such as a local delicacy or craft

Monogrammed tray from The Stationery Studio ($46); they also have Lucite versions for $98

Games are a great choice for frequent entertainers. I am a big fan of Would You Rather?, Electronic Catch Phrase, and Apples to Apples.

Custom House monogrammed coasters ($15.95 for 50)

State dish towels ($20) from Uncommon Goods, also available in city, region, and country styles

Mingle plates from Pottery Barn ($24 for 4)

Wine preserver from Brookstone ($29.95)

Monogrammed pillar candle ($24.99) from Simply Southern

Wine cork place card holders ($15 for 8) from Uncommon Goods

No matter what gift you choose, be sure to send a thank you note promptly after the event. I love this Lilly Pulitzer set ($60 for 25 cards) from The Stationery Studio.

What are some of your favorite hostess gifts to give or receive?

For the bookworm

There's nothing like a good book. Books should be a staple in your gift-giving arsenal because everyone has hobbies and interests and someone, somewhere, has written a book about them.

But some people's affinity for books stretches to an entirely different level. They love all books - romance, travel, sci-fi, how-to, self-help, inspirational, deprecating, fiction, non-fiction, historical, kitschy. They love the freshness of starting a new book, the rush of getting to the "good part," and the slight sadness when the experience is over, which is quickly replaced by the anticipation of the next adventure that will enthrall them. I can readily identify with these people. I am the Gift Guru, and I am addicted to books.

If your recipient is anything like me - someone who always has her nose in a book, stops by the local bookstore on his way home every day, or repeatedly asks you "Read any good books lately?" - then you, dear reader, are shopping for a bookworm. Here are a few tips to help feed your recipient's insatiable need for books:

eReaders and Accessories
These gadgets are all the rage right now among serious readers. They allow readers easy access to and storage for lots of books, magazines, and newspapers, and some offer additional features like Wi-Fi, 3G, and online bookstores. The two most popular dedicated models are Amazon's Kindle and Barnes & Noble's NOOK.

Kindle's $139 version (above) has Wi-Fi and the $189 version has Wi-Fi + 3G. Find accessories at Amazon's Kindle store.

NOOK color (above) starts at $249 and the original NOOK sells for $149 and up. Barnes & Noble is also offering 50% off stylish NOOK original and color accessories for a limited time.

Memberships
Although they may seem expensive to casual shoppers, annual membership programs are essential for any serious book buyer. Your bookworm recipient will immediately see savings on his book purchases and will likely get special offers from the store as well. My favorites are Barnes & Noble ($25), Books-A-Million ($20), and Amazon Prime ($79).


FEED Read 3 bag
The FEED Foundation, which I mentioned here, offers a great bag for book lovers. For $25.00 they will donate 3 books and 3 school meals to needy children and your recipient gets a nifty bag, shown here and available on the FEED website.

Gift Cards
Sometimes the best gift for a book addict is, unsurprisingly, more books. A gift card to his favorite bookstore is always a great present, and will save you the time and stress of trying to determine what books he already has, might want, or has absolutely no interest in. If your bookworm has (or is getting) an eReader, a gift card for new ebooks or accessories is a nice choice.


Languages and Editions
Every bookworm has her favorite books and, following the rule of jewelry and chocolate, there is no such thing as too much. Consider getting her a different edition than the one(s) she owns, such as a first edition (sure to win you major points) or special collector's edition. Abe Books has a great selection of hard-to-find books, especially first editions. If you are feeling especially gracious, consider giving a first edition of The Catcher in the Rye - it's only $22,500!

I started a new tradition on my last trip to Europe to commemorate my favorite novel, Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen. I bought a copy of the book in the language of each country I visited. I enjoyed visiting different countries' bookstores and now I have a lovely little collection (French, German, and Spanish) that will continue to grow as I travel. I am willing to bet that your bookworm would love a foreign edition of her favorite book, especially in its original language and/or country of publishing (or bought at a special bookstore, like Shakespeare and Company in Paris). I know that the Harry Potter books, among others, have different cover art in the UK than in the US, and some even have different titles!

I bought the French version of Pride and Prejudice in Montmartre, Paris, but it's also available from Amazon

Secret Storage Books
Secret storage books (aka hollow books) provide another interesting twist on traditional books and allow your recipient to hide items almost in plain sight. You can find books with cut-outs in the shape of a flask (sometimes with the flask included), gun (hopefully without the gun included), and a simple rectangle or arch. Some books are originals that have been modified while others are reprints or even specially manufactured for use as hollow books. One of my favorite providers is Secret Storage Books, which offers both converted and new hollow editions.

Dracula ($29.99) is one of my favorites and is sitting on my shelf at home

Book Purses
Female bookworms may enjoy a purse made from an old book, especially if the book is one of her favorites. I love Kate Spade's classic clutches (below) and retrograndma's Nancy Drew bags at Etsy.

Book of the Month clutch ($325) from Kate Spade

Furniture
Every bookworm needs the proper hardware to set the stage for an epic reading experience. Hammacher Schlemmer has some great items that go beyond the simple bookcase.

Bedtime Reader's Nightstand ($199.95) holds lots of reading material and keeps it all tidy.

New York Public Library reading table lamp ($379.95) is the same one designed for the library by its architects. Also available in desk lamp ($359.95) and reading floor lamp ($499.95) sizes.

Configurable Reading Lamp ($299.95) holds any position to give readers optimal light and reduce eye strain.

Here are some coupons to use as you shop for your bookworm:

• Barnes & Noble is offering free shipping on orders of $25 or more
• Abe Books is offering free shipping, no minimum purchase requirement
• Krause Books, which focuses on special-interest books and collectors guides, is offering 10% off your order, with no minimum purchase requirement

Happy shopping (and reading)!